Digital Archaeology: Floppy Disk #10 – DM0915.DOC


A summary for those that haven’t been keeping up with this series:

I found a number of 5.25″ disks at a thrift store a number of years ago. I finally got around to acquiring a 5.25″ disk drive and extracting the contents a while back. Since then I have been posting the contents here.

Based on the contents, at least some of these disks were apparently once owned by someone named Connie who used to run the “Close Encounters” Special Interest Group (SIG) on Delphi in the mid 1980s.

A specific definition of this SIG was found in a document on one of the disks: “This SIG, known as ‘Close Encounters’, is a forum for the discussion of relationships that develop via computer services like the Source, CompuServe, and Delphi. Our primary emphasis is on the sexual aspects of those relationships.”

This service was text based and was accessed via whatever terminal program you used on your computer to dial in to Delphi’s servers. Many of these disks have forum messages, e-mails and chat session logs. All of this is pre-internet stuff and I don’t know if there are any archives in existence today of what was on Delphi in the 1980s. In any case, much of this stuff would have been private at the time and probably wouldn’t be in such archives even if they existed.

This post includes the contents of DM0915.DOC which is dated September 15th, 1985. I believe that ‘DM’ in this case stands for Direct Mail which appears to have been Delphi’s version of e-mail. This document contains several such emails from September 11th through September 15th, 1985. Subject matter includes polls, SIG management, and various personal conversations including a couple of melodramas. This file appears to be a captured terminal session and a couple of the e-mails showed up in the previous post but most is “new” stuff.

See the previous post here.

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    # From                 Date         Subject
 
    1 BOS2A::TIGLON        11-SEP-1985  PREMIER ISSUE
    2 BOS1A::JOHNNAPLES    12-SEP-1985  YOU
    3 BOS2A::JOHNWG        13-SEP-1985  Contest for new subscribers (September)
    4 BOS1A::ELLENK        13-SEP-1985  Rod's Poem
    5 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  Announcement - Shopping Service
    6 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  old polls
    7 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  old announcements
    8 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  I love you!!!
    9 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  Topics Available Articles
   10 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  RE: OUR FIRST DATE
   11 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  RE: shopping
   12 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    13-SEP-1985  RE: old polls
   13 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    13-SEP-1985  RE: shopping
   14 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  RE: old polls
   15 BOS1A::CABUYS        13-SEP-1985  RE: shopping
   16 BOS2A::TSBJR         14-SEP-1985  MEMBERSHIP
   17 BOS1A::JOEY          14-SEP-1985  Link-Up
   18 BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF    14-SEP-1985  problem with stuart
   19 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  a request
   20 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  copy of msg to Stuart
   21 BOS1A::JOEY          14-SEP-1985  I can't send or /zend.
   22 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  sen not working to you <sigh>
   23 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  guess should just throw in the towel
   24 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  am not helping things being here
   25 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  sorry have caused c.such troubvl..le
   26 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  will maybe see you later
   27 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  enchantress
   28 BOS1A::PRINCESS      14-SEP-1985  sent to jay in request
   29 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  RE: sen not working to you <sigh>
   30 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  RE: enchantress
   31 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  RE: sent to jay in request
   32 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  if you were not needed or wanted here, t

   33 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  neither John nor I would be as concerned

   34 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  over what all this is doing to you! We n

   35 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  and are trying extremely hard not to pre

   36 BOS1A::FRIDAY        14-SEP-1985  !!!!!
   37 BOS1A::CABUYS        14-SEP-1985  RE: !!!!!
   38 BOS1A::RODM          15-SEP-1985  let me know - please
   39 BOS2A::STUART        15-SEP-1985  
   40 BOS1A::RODM          15-SEP-1985  Let me know - text
   41 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  RE: Let me know - text
   42 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  
   43 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  I need you as soon as possible! but plea

   44 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  RE: YOU
   45 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  RE: Rod's Poem
   46 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  RE: MEMBERSHIP
   47 BOS1A::CABUYS        15-SEP-1985  RE: Link-Up


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'So-GREAT TALKING WITH YOUR TODAY..IT SOUNDS LIKE WE HAVE A FEW THINGS IN COMMON..I'
D LOVE TO GET TOGETHER AGAIN..STAY IN TOUCH..ID LIKE TO BECOME FRIENDS .  JAY
^-now for our next trick...9what (if anything) shall we do with the shopping servi
ce?;let me see - good books, so called 'adult' books, toys <?>,=maybe we should 
consider what we can do with it and set up wt00P8<<=
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    #1          11-SEP-1985 12:39:02                                        MAIL

From:   BOS2A::TIGLON      
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   PREMIER ISSUE



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    #2          12-SEP-1985 21:01:31                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::JOHNNAPLES  
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   YOU

 I haven't had time to write yet - rough week
 -  - Karen says you ought to come to
 Tamp St. Pete ( her house - I am there
 on many weekiends kends)- it is closer to 
 JAX than Naples. Will write soon.
 LOVE, John


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    #3          13-SEP-1985 11:33:02                                        MAIL

From:   BOS2A::JOHNWG      
To:     @MANAGER
Subj:   Contest for new subscribers (September)



    Delphi is proud to announce a Contest that will be for the month
    of September.  Becasue of the newly configured Vax computers and
    response time now getting back to a good state, and becasue we are
    adding another Vax mainframe this month, September will be a
    membership month.
    The Sig Manager that brings on the most new users between now and
    the end of September will receive a Getaway weekend for two at
    your choice of several major Hotels.
    How it works:
    Refer a non member of Delphi to subscribe to Delphi.
    The most referrals attributed to your Username will win!
    Just have the non member of Delphi type in CONTEST as a username,
    and have that person give your username for the person who
    referred him/her.
    Simple Huh.!
    We will also be allowing existing members of Delphi to participate
    in a similar contest.
    Thanks,
            John



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    #4          13-SEP-1985 20:32:09                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::ELLENK       "Ellen Kaufman"
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   Rod's Poem

Connie,
Know you are busy answering Forum mail but just wanted youto know I read Rod's p
oem.
It's wonderful!
So glad for youhon!

xXkissesXx ((hugs)) **fuzzies**
<<>>


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    #5          13-SEP-1985 21:37:04                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     KELLY,CABUYS      
Subj:   Announcement - Shopping Service

Hi Kelly!

I've tried on several occasions now to post an announcement in the
Shopping Service advising members that this is not yet avialable.
However no matter what I try to do the first line of the announcement will
not exceed 40 characters.  When I go to edit, the first line appears
as it should in full.

It's just a slight thing but would appreciate your
checking for the bug or whatever when you can. No rush, of course.

Thanks.

-Connie


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    #6          13-SEP-1985 21:50:45                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   old polls



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    #7          13-SEP-1985 21:52:34                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   old announcements

John,

I've deleted or actually moved a lot of old announcements to appropriate
areas.  I grouped them according to where they should be, such as
database or membership or whatever, then reposted them as Old Aug. 85
Announcements.  I think doing this on the first of each month will keep the
What's New from getting too bulky.

Just keeping you posted of what I've done!

-Connie


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    #8          13-SEP-1985 21:52:50                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   I love you!!!



MAIL> 

    #9          13-SEP-1985 22:02:19                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     KELLY,CABUYS      
Subj:   Topics Available Articles

Hi Kelly!

I hope you've read my previous mail about problem with Shopping Service
announcement.

I've now discovered this same problem exists in the Topics Available
articles for all sections except the Close Encounters once.

I'm using Uninet, just in case that makes any difference, and I've
notived some strange, apparrently "forced" <cr>s, before.

Hope it's something that can be easily resolved as I know you've problems
enough these days! <smile> Aren't computers fun?
*
-Conbnie


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    #10         13-SEP-1985 22:37:58                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::JJM,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: OUR FIRST DATE

Dear Jay,

I too enjoyed our chat and I'm sure we will become friends.

I look forward to seeing more of you in the sig too!

<hugs>

-Connie


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    #11         13-SEP-1985 22:43:45                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: shopping

JOhn,

The problem with shopping is this, as far as I am concerned:  I can't see
how we can approach vendors to sell their products thru the sig unless
we know for certain that we will be around longer than six months.

Keep in mind that most of the other sig managers (corection *all* of the
other sig managers) run their sigs in connection with their regular work
and have all the connections etc in place that we don't.  That means we
are going to have to work a little harder, I guess, however I am not even
sure what kind of legal arrangements, ie contracts, they have
with their vendors, if any.

I have in mind contacting one outfit known as Twenty-One.  It is a  book
club for adults and would be a good test candidate, especially since they
already have the experience of dealing with mail orders.  If i can
find out about the "contracts" or "agreements", then I will contact
Twenty-One.

ANy ideas?

-Connie


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    #12         13-SEP-1985 22:43:57                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
To:     BOS1A::CABUYS,JOHNMYSELF  
Subj:   RE: old polls

Connie; no doubt you forgot.  I set the polls to run till November
to give our new membership a chance to respond to them.

At the time you said it was ok.

no biggy


ps: I Love You too.


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    #13         13-SEP-1985 22:45:07                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
To:     BOS1A::CABUYS,JOHNMYSELF  
Subj:   RE: shopping

yes.

I  am over 21.  Contact me.

                <grin>


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    #14         13-SEP-1985 22:45:38                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: old polls

John,

no doubt I'm forgetting most things these days. sigh. oh well.
didn't seem to be much activity on them so maybe we
should try some new ones soon.

Love,
Connie


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    #15         13-SEP-1985 22:46:27                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: shopping

consider yourself "contacted!" <grin>


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    #16         14-SEP-1985 01:20:16                                        MAIL

From:   BOS2A::TSBJR       
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   MEMBERSHIP

HI! I'VE BEEN LOOKING AROUND THE "CLOSE ENCOUNTERS" SIG, AND I'M INTERESTED IN P
OSSIBLY JOINING. I'M NOT SURE IF I ANSWERED THE PROMPTS CORRECTLY TO LET YOU
KNOW THAT, SO I'M SENDING ALONG THIS
NOTE, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY END UP BEING
REDUNDANT!  ANYWAY, HOPE YOU CAN 
RESPOND SOON. SEND REPLY TO MEMBERNAME
TSBJR (REAL NASMME TOM BERGANTINO). 
I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO MEETING YOU
AND LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLE "ONLINE".
THANKS A LOT, CONNIE (I HOPE THAT'S
THE RIGHT NAME!!? IF NOT, OOPS!!!).
TAKE CARE! BYE.


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    #17         14-SEP-1985 11:19:28                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::JOEY         "JOEY"
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   Link-Up

Connie,

     In reference to your mention of Link-Up magazinge in the forum, is it

a communications magazine? Can you get me some subscription info? I have

been slooking for a magazine that deals with this area, but no look so far. 

(luck).  The magazine eselection in this part of the country leaves a lot to be d
esireddesired.
desired.  Even Playboy isn't on the stands (under the counter). If you

have any info, send to my home address:

Joe Varvarovsky
21 Tennessee Avenue
Alexandria La. 71301-5631

By the way, I loved Rod's poem. Anyone that will put that where everybody

can read it is truly in love. I wish you two the best in everything.

You both are very nice people and deserving of any happiness that comes

your way. Thanks and GOOD LOUCKUCK!!

((hugs))
Joe


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    #18         14-SEP-1985 18:28:44                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::JOHNMYSELF  
To:     @SIG,JOHNMYSELF  
Subj:   problem with stuart

Dear Sir;

  Your continued attitude relating to material posted in the 'forum'
section of the sig, and its data-bases is causing considerable
interference in the running and maintainance of the 'Close Encounters'
sig.  In particular, your continued pressure on Peg regarding
not only material that she might post, but material that is posted
to others, is both unwarranted and unacceptable.  

  Your recent complaint about a message which had a personal comment
for me was reviewed by both Peg and I and found to be proper 
as posted.

  We can not tolerate a great deal more of such interference in sig
management and respectfully request that you cease and desist in
such tactics.  Should it become necessary, we will have to restrict
your access to the sig so as to avoid further difficulty.  

                                        Respectfully;  John - Myself


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    #19         14-SEP-1985 19:53:39                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     STUART,CABUYS      
Subj:   a request

Stuart,

I have a request to make of you:  In the future, please direct any comments/
criticisms/suggestions about this sig to my attention as I am
the Sig Manager under contract with Delphi.

If you have any problems with this request, please let me know.  Thank you for
your co-operation in this.

-Connie A. Buys, Close Encounters Sig Manager


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    #20         14-SEP-1985 19:53:55                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   copy of msg to Stuart

Stuart,

I have a request to make of you:  In the future, please direct any comments/
criticisms/suggestions about this sig to my attention as I am
the Sig Manager under contract with Delphi.

If you have any problems with this request, please let me know.  Thank you for
your co-operation in this.

-Connie A. Buys, Close Encounters Sig Manager


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    #21         14-SEP-1985 20:06:10                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::JOEY         "JOEY"
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   I can't send or /zend.



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    #22         14-SEP-1985 20:22:00                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   sen not working to you <sigh>

hope i am not on shilt list, 
will have to have serious talk with
his hightness tonight
will not be easy
wish me luck
hugs
peggy


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    #23         14-SEP-1985 20:25:17                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   guess should just throw in the towel



MAIL> 

    #24         14-SEP-1985 20:25:31                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   am not helping things being here



MAIL> 

    #25         14-SEP-1985 20:25:47                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   sorry have caused csuch troubvlle



MAIL> 

    #26         14-SEP-1985 20:26:02                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS 
Subj:   will maybe see you later



MAIL> 

    #27         14-SEP-1985 20:30:52                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   enchantress

Jay has someone else using Enchantress under my profile
think is in very bad taste and am tempted to do something
foolish
why does it bother me that he is dong thating that?
is not fair
sigh
seeya later
one vrery mixed up and hurting peggy


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    #28         14-SEP-1985 20:32:02                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::PRINCESS    
To:     CABUYS,PRINCESS
Subj:   sent to jay in request

would you please at least change the profile on enchantress?
for my sake? or at least my pride?
you may not care about that, but i do
sorry
p


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    #29         14-SEP-1985 21:07:37                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: sen not working to you <sigh>

Peggy, you'll never by on any shit list with me.  I'm just very concerned
about what al this is doing to you *and* us *and* the sig.

I love you like I'd love my very own twin sister, if I had one! Please
don't ever forge thtat!

<hugs>
-Connie


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    #30         14-SEP-1985 21:09:48                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: enchantress

Peggy,

I can understand your hurt and pain. But please ask Jay to at least delete
the profile for that account.

Perhaps it is just one of his ways of making you hurt like he's been hurt.
Please hang in there.  You are very much loved, you know!

<comforting hugs>
-Connie


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    #31         14-SEP-1985 21:10:34                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: sent to jay in request

oops should have read this before leaving earlier reply! 

<hugs>
-Connie


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    #32         14-SEP-1985 21:11:15                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   if you were not needed or wanted here, then....



MAIL> 

    #33         14-SEP-1985 21:11:48                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   neither John nor I would be as concerned or upset as we are...



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    #34         14-SEP-1985 21:12:20                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   over what all this is doing to you! We need, want, and love you!...



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    #35         14-SEP-1985 21:12:45                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     PRINCESS,CABUYS      
Subj:   and are trying extremely hard not to pressure you!



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    #36         14-SEP-1985 21:14:01                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::FRIDAY      
To:     JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS
Subj:   !!!!!

i don't believe this....no conference system..arghhhhhs


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    #37         14-SEP-1985 21:15:27                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::FRIDAY,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: !!!!!

I don't believe it either! I just got done /sending to Johnmyself a message
that said one word:  "SHIT!" and I don't even talk like that!



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    #38         15-SEP-1985 01:52:57                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::RODM        
To:     CABUYS,RODM        
Subj:   let me know - please

 
136  13-SEP 20:07 Open Forum
     RE: 'old married folks' (Re: Msg 86)
     From: CABUYS       To: JOHNMYSELF
 
 
The one thing I don't want to happen is for anyone I have a relationship with
to think they are taken for granted.  Yet for various reasons this could very
well be the case.
 
I'm at a point where I feel that some of my relationships are suffering
because I'm not tending to them as well as I should.  I also wonder how the
other person really feels if he/she becomes aware that I'm not as
dependent upon him/her as I once was.  This could be viewed as 1) growth in
the ability to handle problems myself or 2) transferring the dependence to
another.
 
I value the relationships I have - more than I've let the people involved in
them know of!  I don't want to lose any of the wonderful things we have
going for us because of negligence on my part.
 
Those who are closest to me have enriched my life beyond anything they can
possibly imagine and I just want to take this means to letting them know
that!
 
John, those of us who have you are very fortunate!


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    #39         15-SEP-1985 01:55:38                                        MAIL

From:   BOS2A::STUART      
To:     CABUYS
Subj:   

        Dear Connie and John:

        Please advise why all of a sudden I have trouble looking at the forum me
ssages. If I have been locked out of that portion of the sig,it is important for
 many reasons that I know.
I get" no message" to each one.


        My communications with Peg are personal to Peg and I.What she tells you 
 and how you interpret what she chooses to tell you are not my communications to
 you or anyone else on Delphi.

        Stuart Brand


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    #40         15-SEP-1985 02:13:41                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::RODM        
To:     CABUYS,RODM        
Subj:   Let me know - text

My Beloved darling,

The previous message is the one John asked me for my interpitation of and
my reply to him was that I saw it as you telling of your feelings toward
him in front of whoever should see!
He questioned why it was not said in dmail instead.
I told him that you and I had pretty much agreed to talk of our relationship in 
the sig and in third person so that others might relate to what we are
experiencing and that perhaps you were presenting some of what there is between 
you and john in a similar manner.
That is how I perceive the message and I told John that he should discuss that w
ith you and that if I were to discuss it I would much rather do so by phone whic
h
we have pretty much agreed to do!

I assume you and he have discussed this by now and now you and I MUST do so!!!

Darling I love you so very much and want to tell EVERYONE that I can! but I do
not want to presume your feelings or cause harm or embarrassment
to anyone or to the sig!

Please give me a clue and I will also call you as soon as possible!!!

I LOVE YOU !!!!

Love,

Rod


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    #41         15-SEP-1985 11:12:40                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::RODM,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: Let me know - text

Dear Rod,

Msg 136 is something we will have to discuss in person and I'm not even sure
it's wise that we discuss it at all.

You see, msg 136 has nothing to do with you and I or John and I.  There is a
person in this sig attempting to destroy it via another person.  Can't say
more than that right now.  

Please be patient with me.  I can't tell you here how this has upset me.

I love you.

Love,
Connie


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    #42         15-SEP-1985 11:34:52                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     STUART, JOHNMYSELF,CABUYS      
Subj:   

Stuart,

As you probably know by now, your access has been restored.

I still respectfully request that all discussions about the nature of this
sig regarding complaints about messages, etc. be directed to my attention
only.  It is ultimately my responsibility, not Peg's and not John's.

Thank you.

Connie A. Buys, Sig Manager
Close Encounters SIG


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    #43         15-SEP-1985 11:36:16                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     RODM,CABUYS      
Subj:   I need you as soon as possible! but please be careful.



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    #49         15-SEP-1985 11:54:11                                 WASTEBASKET

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::JOHNNAPLES,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: YOU

I roughed out the following message for the forum, but would not post it
without checking with you first for your approval.

If you like, you may use it in whatever manner you choose.  You can post it
in the forum with whatever changes you wish or you can delete it-no problem
either way.

here it is:

Recently this situation and question came up in conference with a member and we 
would like to know how you would answer it:

This is a quote from that conference:

"need some advice.  <his mate> and he had a group of friends but
interestingly enough it was almost all ladies and him.  He loved it
but the ladies, tho liking each other, felt somewhat cheated.  It
seems the women are more free and kinky than men.  Any thoughts on
how to get some gents to fullfill the ladies' fantasies?"
 
"We tried three other guys - one would never show at the parties, one
couldn't handle ladies who liked each other, and one <married> kept
trying to slice ladies to monopolize.  You have to be careful about
whom you ask to join such groups."

Love,
Connie


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    #1          15-SEP-1985 11:59:31                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::ELLENK,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: Rod's Poem

Ellen,

Thanks for  your dmail about Rod's poem.  Hope you don't mind but
I forwarded a copy of it to him.


I do have to admit I had some reservations about it and about my "public"
statement of my feelings toward him.  

I've become more aware than ever before of the difficulty of handling a sig
of this nature.  Tho managing any sig is a job of devotion and love,
managing one that deals with an "intangible" is only much more complicated.

BUT I don't plan to give up! <grin>  I will always believe it's a sig
people want and that can be beneficial.

Talk to you soon!

<hugs>
-Connie


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    #2          15-SEP-1985 12:01:05                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS2A::TSBJR,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: MEMBERSHIP

Hi Tom!

Welcome to Close Encounters Sig!  We are glad to have you join us!

<hugs>
-Connie
Sig Manager


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    #3          15-SEP-1985 12:05:51                                        MAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     BOS1A::JOEY,CABUYS      
Subj:   RE: Link-Up

Hi Joey!

I found the info to Link-UP.  It costs $22 for 1 year.  They accept Mastercard
Visa, AMEX.  Address is Link-Up, 143 Old Marlton Pike, Medford, New
Jersey 08055, phone #609-654-6266.  You can also call that number for getting
a faster action on subscriptions.

This newspaper format replaced a magazine of the same name that
discontinued publication a while back.

Hope this helps.  Sure am sorry to hear that getting mags are so difficult in
your area! <grin>

By the wqay, this one would most likely not be found on magazine racks anyway.

<hugs>
-Connie


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    #1          15-SEP-1985 12:20:11                                     NEWMAIL

From:   BOS1A::CABUYS       "CONNIE"
To:     FRIED,CABUYS      
Subj:   good old /send isn't working again so....

here it is:  "Hi Bob!" 


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    #1          15-SEP-1985 12:20:42                                     NEWMAIL

From:   BOS1A::FRIED        "Bob Fried"
To:     BOS1A::CABUYS
Subj:   RE: good old /send isn't working again so....

Hahaha.  I tried to send to you too.

Hi, Connie!


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