man Thomas O. Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1831 at ,, South Carolina, died ‎± ABT. 1870 at , Pontotoc, Mississippi‎, approximately 39 years, buried ‎ at Not Buried, Monument in Oak Hill Cemetery, Pontotoc Cemetery
Church records indicate that Thomas and Nancy Green Porter came from Greenvile, South Carolina, as were the Greens and Dillards.

There are no Porter who are listed in North or South Carolina Cemeteries who appear to be of an appropriate age to be Thomas Porter's parents [http://rfci.net/wdfloyd/, which has a list of all the cemeteries in North and South Carolina].

Thomas and Nancy Green Porter are shown in the Census of 1860 and 1870 in Mississippi and in the 1850 Census in the Spartanburg District, (probably on the North Fork of the Picolet River), in South Carolina. Living with them are Catherine (age 18), Smith (age 15), Mary (age 13), Runyan (age 9), Matilda (age 7), and Elizabeth (age 3). Since Thomas is only 21 and Nancy is only 16, and there being no other Porters in the area, it seems likely that these others are Thomas's siblings. In 1840, in Spartanburg, there is a Robert S. Porter on the Census in a household of 8 people.

On either side of young Thomas and Nancy are William Green, who appears to be widowed or divorced. and B. Green. In addition, there are Dillards, possibly cousins or aunt and uncles on her mother's side, in near proximity. It appears that all left South Carolina and came to Mississippi together.

According to Nita Porter, shortly after the birth of his last child, which would have been on or about 09 November 1870, while his wife was still confined to the bed, Tom rode off on an errand and never returned. The consensus among family members is that he must have been murdered and then dumped somewhere for he was content at home and had little reason to abandon his family. His son Nathan always felt that his father had been murdered by his uncle King Dillard (husband to his mother's sister Mary). Why he felt this way is not known. The times were dangerous. Rustlers were known to be active in those parts as well as any number of other lawless sorts. In the Oak Hill Cemetery there is a monument where he would have been buried. On it it says,

"Thomas Porter
in
Memory
1 Regt
Miss Inf
CSA
1831
Escaped
Ft. Donelson
Also 3rd
Miss Cav
Fate
Unknown"

Nearby is the grave of his wife Nancy and the grave of Infant, who died in the same year that Tom disappeared.

Civil War Record Physical Description: 5'9", eyes black, hair black, complexion dark, occupation Farming. He is shown to have enlisted in the Confederate Mississippi Company C, 1st Miss Volunteers, in Isaka (?), Miss. He is shown as sick in the hospital in Clinton, Miss Aug. 1, 1862.

On or about February 5, 1863 (notation at bottom of company Muster Roll says "+Roll Reed A.&I. So. Feb, 1863): Shown "Absent" and "Escaped, Donelson." This date of February 5 is prior to the taking of Fort Donelson so the notes must have been taken after Donelson fell. About 100-1500 men escaped from Fort Donelson with Nathan Bedford Forrest and his cavalry and Generals Pillow and Floyd. The escape was daring and took the escapees to Nashville. When Forts Henry and Donelson fell to the Union Army, the Ohio and Cumberland Rivers were in the hands of the North. Nashville, Shiloh and Vicksburg were to follow, though Vicksburg did not fall until July 1863. Though Thomas Porter was obviously in the middle of one losing battle after another in Tennessee and the Mississippi, Ohio and Cumberland River Valleys, he continued to reenlist until the end of the war. There are also Civil War Confederate records showing him in the 1st Mississippi Cavalry rather than the 3rd.


Names of 7 children (all except Nathaniel Berry) taken from 1870 Mississippi Census, Pontotoc County.

Jane was the only child born in South Carolina. Thomas and Nancy, therefore, must have moved to Mississippi between 1851 and 1856. The date of 1851-2 is confirmed by church records, copies of which are in the hands of Edna Earl McLain Dolland in Galion, Ohio.

There are several Porter wills in Union County, South Carolina but the connection, if any, is not certain.

Married ‎± ABT. 1850 at Probably South Carolina (approximately 20 years married) to:

woman Nancy Green‏‎, daughter of William M. Green and Sela Dillard‏.
Born ‎ May 13, 1835 at ,, South Carolina, died ‎ Aug 4, 1903 at , Pontotoc, Mississippi‎, 68 years, buried ‎ at , Pontotoc Cemetery, Pontotoc, Mississippi
6/12/1999 Have received copy of Thomas Porter's Infantry and Cavalry Records. Nancy did not apply for pension. Need to check 1880 census to see where Nancy was living and how she supported herself.

Nancy Green Porter and Thomas Porter were both born in South Carolina. Since their daughter Jane was born there, in 1851, they probably married around 1850. The first child to be born in Mississippi was Mary M., born about 1858. They probably came to Mississippi between 1857 and 1858. The Oak Hill Church records show them as transferring from the Corinth Church, Union District, South Carolina, 16 July 1859.

Thomas and Nancy Green Porter are shown in the Census of 1860 and 1870 in Mississippi and in the 1850 Census in the Spartanburg District, (probably on the North Fork of the Picolet River), in South Carolina. Living with them are Catherine (age 18), Smith (age 15), Mary (age 13), Runyan (age 9), Matilda (age 7), and Elizabeth (age 3). Since Thomas is only 21 and Nancy is only 16, and there being no other
Porters in the area, it seems likely that these others are Thomas's siblings. In 1840, in Spartanburg, there is a Robert S. Porter on the Census in a household of 8 people. An alternative to the suggestion that the children living with Thomas and Nancy are his sibling is that they are Nancy's siblings since she has siblings with the same names.

On either side of young Thomas and Nancy are William Green, who appears to be widowed or divorced and B. Green. In addition, there are Dillards, possibly cousins or aunt and uncles on her mother's side, in near proximity. It appears that all left South Carolina and came to Mississippi together.

[A search for marriage records in South Carolina reveals no Thomas Porter and Nancy Green, using Langdon's Spartanburg County Marriages 1785-1911 and Marriages Notices in the Charleston Courier 1803-1808 and GenWeb. A search of LDS records is next.]

According to Nita Porter Baldwin, Nathan Berry Porter had 9 siblings: Nerve [Marvery?], Ronnie {Verona?], Mollie {Mary?], Ella [Ellise}, Jane, Judson (who died young and is buried in Oak Hill Cemetery), Ann and Emma. The last two I had not previously entered (as of 02/14/01). I now enter them but should check against the censuses.

Children:

1.
woman Jane Porter‏
Born ‎± ABT. 1851 at ,, South Carolina‎
2.
woman Marvey Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1856 at ,, Mississippi‎
3.
woman Mary Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1858‎
4.
woman Verona Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1860 at ,, Mississippi‎
5.
man Nathan Berry "Jack or Pap" Porter‏
Born ‎ Jan 9, 1862 at , Pontotoc, Mississippi, died ‎ Jun 28, 1949 at Tupelo, Lee, Mississippi‎, 87 years, buried ‎ Jun 29, 1948 at Oak Hill Cemetery, Pontotoc, Pontotoc, Mississippi
Nathan was always a kindly, generous and devoted father, husband and friend. As land owners, however, there was one area in which he was not tolerant. He did not want his daughters seeing, much less marrying, the McLain boys, whose family worked as share croppers and lived in the Old Miller Place, about a mile down the road from the Porter-Sibley Farm. Even after Roxie and Grover ran off to get married and had a child, he refused to acknowledge the child for many years.

It is possible that Nathan had some kind of drinking problem.

Nathan Berry Porter appears to have died without a will. All of his estate, however, appears to have passed to his wife Lula Mary (aka Mary Lula) so it is possible that he left a will but for some reason it is not indexed or otherwise found in the record books of Pontotoc County.

Buried, along with wife, Lula Mary Sibley, and daughter, Lillian are buried in the Oak Hill Cemetery.

Nathan Berry Porter was all his life called Jack until he had grandchildren. They called him Pap.

Pap had a stroke about five years before he died and was confined to the wheelchair for the remainder of his days. He couldn't always talk after the stroke but he did understand what was said to him.

I need a photo of his tombstone.
6.
woman Ann Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1864 at ,, Mississippi‎
7.
woman Ellise Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1866 at ,, Mississippi‎
8.
man Judson Porter‏‎
Born ‎± ABT. 1868 at ,, Mississippi, died ‎± ABT. 1889 at ,, Mississippi‎, approximately 21 years, cause of death: Typhoid
9.
woman Ann Porter‏‎ PRIVACY FILTER
10.
woman Nan Porter‏‎ PRIVACY FILTER
11.
man Infant Porter‏‎
Born ‎ Nov 9, 1870, died ‎ Nov 15, 1870‎, under 1 year old