Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site utcs.uucp Path: utzoo!utcs!flaps From: flaps@utcs.uucp (Alan J Rosenthal) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Being Ruled By The 'Nads Message-ID: <945@utcs.uucp> Date: Mon, 28-Oct-85 20:19:52 EST Article-I.D.: utcs.945 Posted: Mon Oct 28 20:19:52 1985 Date-Received: Mon, 28-Oct-85 21:21:48 EST References: <20800025@ada-uts.UUCP> Reply-To: flaps@utcs.UUCP (Alan J Rosenthal) Organization: University of Toronto Lines: 14 Summary: In article <20800025@ada-uts.UUCP> richw@ada-uts.UUCP writes: >How would you react if your SO suddenly told you, "Hun, I've decided >that I don't want to sleep with you again (for several months, until >marriage, forever). DON'T take it personally -- I'm doing it for >personal reasons." (e.g. religious reasons) I don't think that the reason I would be upset is that "the end point of a date was no longer the sack". I think that I enjoy sleeping with my SO and that, although we are also friends, we are also lovers. My lover & I were friends first, for a couple of months. Now we are lovers and friends. If my SO wanted to be just friends again, I would be upset, because I treasure our sexual relationship highly.