Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: Notesfiles $Revision: 1.7.0.8 $; site cdp Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!decwrl!Glacier!cdp!scott From: scott@cdp.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Being Ruled By The 'Nads Message-ID: <4900007@cdp> Date: Sat, 2-Nov-85 21:56:00 EST Article-I.D.: cdp.4900007 Posted: Sat Nov 2 21:56:00 1985 Date-Received: Tue, 5-Nov-85 20:27:38 EST References: <1322@mtgzz.UUCP> Lines: 13 Nf-ID: #R:mtgzz.UUCP:-132200:cdp:4900007:000:577 Nf-From: cdp.UUCP!scott Nov 2 18:56:00 1985 > My lover & I were friends first, for a couple of months. Now we are lovers > and friends. If my SO wanted to be just friends again, I would be upset, > because I treasure our sexual relationship highly. As would be expected. The semi-rhetorical question is, how would you react, how would you try to redefine the relationship, if your friend decided s/he wanted to stop being sexual? Scott Weikart Community Data Processing: 415-322-9069 {decwrl,sun,bellcore,megatest,adobe,hplabs,...}!glacier!cdp!scott {ihnp4,decvax,ucbvax,cbosgd,hao,purdue,duke,...}!hplabs!cdp!scott