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From: flaps@utcs.uucp (Alan J Rosenthal)
Newsgroups: net.women
Subject: Re: Being Ruled By The 'Nads
Message-ID: <945@utcs.uucp>
Date: Mon, 28-Oct-85 20:19:52 EST
Article-I.D.: utcs.945
Posted: Mon Oct 28 20:19:52 1985
Date-Received: Mon, 28-Oct-85 21:21:48 EST
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Reply-To: flaps@utcs.UUCP (Alan J Rosenthal)
Organization: University of Toronto
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Summary: 

In article <20800025@ada-uts.UUCP> richw@ada-uts.UUCP writes:
>How would you react if your SO suddenly told you, "Hun, I've decided
>that I don't want to sleep with you again (for several months, until
>marriage, forever).  DON'T take it personally -- I'm doing it for
>personal reasons."  (e.g. religious reasons)

I don't think that the reason I would be upset is that "the end point of
a date was no longer the sack".  I think that I enjoy sleeping with my SO
and that, although we are also friends, we are also lovers.

My lover & I were friends first, for a couple of months.  Now we are lovers
and friends.  If my SO wanted to be just friends again, I would be upset,
because I treasure our sexual relationship highly.