Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site jhunix.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!umcp-cs!aplcen!jhunix!ins_aeas From: ins_aeas@jhunix.UUCP (Earle A .Sugar) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Nominally Single??? Message-ID: <1091@jhunix.UUCP> Date: Sat, 2-Nov-85 11:54:08 EST Article-I.D.: jhunix.1091 Posted: Sat Nov 2 11:54:08 1985 Date-Received: Tue, 5-Nov-85 05:30:49 EST References: <1071@trwrdc.UUCP> <490@rti-sel.UUCP> <1079@trwrdc.UUCP> <515@rti-sel.UUCP> Organization: The Johns Hopkins University, Inc. Lines: 39 > > ALL relationships are 'unique' and 'irreplaceable.' If you get around > enough you realize that there are many people out there you can fall > deeply in love with; repeating the intensity is a matter of getting > off your duff and meeting new people. There's a slight hint here of the > tired myth that we all have one 'special' Someone out there created > especially for us, and it's up to us to go out and find that 'special' > Someone (and pity the poor person who never finds his/her Perfect Love!). > emotional states. > What makes you think many people have never fallen in love? This is > certainly true of your average group of 20 year olds, but there are a > LOT of people posting to this group who are much older and experienced. > This is another myth: that Love is a rich and rare thing that only > occasionally strikes down a lucky and willing victim. Love is as common > as dirt, my friend. If love is common as dirt, I and most of the people I know must be living in operating rooms. People don't just turn relationships on and off like a light bulb. Finding a one-nighter isn't that difficult, if one lowers one's standards of who he or she wants to have a relationship with. Finding a partner that is well-matched enough for the two of you to stick together for a decent amount of time without a super-human effort to tolerate each other is rather hard to do, although it depends on a person's exact situation socially, academically, geographically, etc. as to the number of available members of the opposite gender are available (assuming even societal distribution of people that you could fall in love or lust with, which often isn't the case). > -- Cheers, Bill Ingogly -- ______________________________________________________________________________ Earle A. Sugar Disclaimer:"I doubt anyone else here agrees with me." USENET: ...!seismo!umcp-cs!aplvax!aplcen!jhunix!ins_aeas CSNET:ins_aeas@jhunix.csnet ARPA:ins_aeas%jhunix.csnet@csnet-relay.arpa BITNET: INS_BEAS@JHUVMS (as a last resort) or call 301-889-0815 after 6 P.M. EST