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From: ecl@mtgzz.UUCP (e.c.leeper)
Newsgroups: net.women
Subject: Re: Being Ruled By The 'Nads
Message-ID: <1322@mtgzz.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 25-Oct-85 21:28:46 EDT
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Posted: Fri Oct 25 21:28:46 1985
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> To make a long story short, I'd like to propose the following:
> 
> Date a person to first become their friend, and then sleep with him-
> or-her if you get that far.  I've also found that sex is a lot better
> that way.  In other words, I personally feel that the "date, get-along,
> snuggle-bunnies, maybe-be-friends" order of things is sub-optimal.

Boy, my age must be showing!  I thought this *was* what people did.  My
husband (mtgzz!leeper of net.movies fame) and I have been friends for
17 years now and married for 13--I can't imagine a relationship that long-term
unless the people *were* friends.  But then, we know lots of couples of whom we
say, "What do they ever find to talk to each other about?!?"  Often, it turns
out to be the divorce.

					Evelyn C. Leeper
					...ihnp4!mtgzz!ecl

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