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From: levasseur@morgan.DEC (Ray  EMD & S Admin  223-5027)
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Subject: Re: Bisexuality Anyone?.......I'll pass.
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Date: Thu, 22-Aug-85 09:22:28 EDT
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Posted: Thu Aug 22 09:22:28 1985
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Regarding "Bisexuality Anyone?"

    In the 15 years that I've been out I can't count the number of "Supposedly"
bisexual men I've met. I have also dated about a half dozen of them and after
all these years believe that they're among the most confused individuals as
far as sexual orientation goes. Kinda makes me remember a poster that one bi
guy I knew had hanging in his bathroom with a two headed rooster; heads point-
ing in opposite directions. The caption read, "I don't know which way my pecker
is pointing!"
    Yes, they claim to have the best of both worlds but can make the worst of
both worlds for their partners unless their partners are also bisexual. Maybe
I'm old fashioned but I just can't see a boy and girl, with another boy or
girl on the side, three boys, three girls or any other permutations and combin-
ations of more than two. If I had a mate, I would want them to know what they
wanted and not worry if they were going to run off with a woman if the spirit
moved them.
    And yes, these guys can hide behind their marriage when the going gets tough
on the same sexed side of the fence. I became very good friends with the wife
of one of the guys I was dating. We both agreed to feeling used by the guy and 
I broke it off.
    I was married to my wife and loved her very much. She did not believe in
true bisexuality and neither do I. I've asked a lot of the guys, if they really
had to make a choice, what would it be? 99 out of a hundred opted for men hands
down. Most were afraid to make such a committment and preferred to walk both
sides of the fence. When my marriage ended I finally faced the fact that I was
gay and had attempted lieing to myself. Some guys have asked if I would ever 
sleep with a woman again, and I highly doubt that it would ever happen. I enjoy
the company of women a lot but wouldn't sleep withthem now. The bottom line is
that I fel there are very few "True Bisexuals" I may be all wrong as this is
only from my own observations and the conversations of others.

                                            Ray