Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84 exptools; site ihlpg.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!ihnp4!ihlpg!sed408 From: sed408@ihlpg.UUCP (s. dugan) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: re sex problem Message-ID: <1125@ihlpg.UUCP> Date: Fri, 23-Aug-85 16:21:06 EDT Article-I.D.: ihlpg.1125 Posted: Fri Aug 23 16:21:06 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 25-Aug-85 00:28:41 EDT Organization: AT&T Bell Laboratories Lines: 39 > > elizabeth, > > How is it that you are able to have a SO around so that > you will not be sleeping alone, yet not have to give up > your living alone? This question assumes that the person > that you would be sleeping with is a long time relationship and > probably would qualify to be a live-in. Don'tcha think that > after a while he'll get tired of the 'go home in the morning' > routine and maybe get the feeling of being used if he doesn't > get to share in the rest of your life? I pose the question > because your article reminded me of feelings I'd had in a past > relationship about having been used. The relationship wasn't > that way from the beginning but slowly evolved to that feeling > for me. It wasn't fun. > > Just wondering what your thoughts were............. > > paul I can't answer this question for elizabeth (Lady Godiva), but I can answer it for myself. My SO and I each have our own apartments. Some nights we spend at HIS place and some nights we spend at MY place. Other nights, we each spend at our respective places. This gives us our own space when we need it. Works out pretty neat. We also don't run into hastles about how we spend money or "you're not doing your share of the cleaning" and all that bullshit. -- Sarah E. Dugan "Thank God It's Friday." ########################################################################### # AT&T Bell Labs IH 1D-408 The Forest (home) # # Naperville-Wheaton Rd. 1353 Crab Apple Court Apt. 101 # # Naperville, Illinois 60566 Naperville, Illinois 60540 # # (312) 979 - 5545 (312) 355 - 0445 # ###########################################################################