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From: purtell@reed.UUCP (Lady Godiva)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Your SO's friends and you
Message-ID: <1831@reed.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 23-Aug-85 14:38:24 EDT
Article-I.D.: reed.1831
Posted: Fri Aug 23 14:38:24 1985
Date-Received: Sun, 25-Aug-85 01:46:08 EDT
References: <467@moncol.UUCP> <5608@tektronix.UUCP> <1084@lumiere.UUCP> <481@moncol.UUCP>
Reply-To: purtell@reed.UUCP (Lady Godiva)
Organization: Reed College, Portland, Oregon
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Summary: 

In article <481@moncol.UUCP> john@moncol.UUCP (John Ruschmeyer) writes:
>
>A note on this whole discussion: [The discussion being what people owed
to each other in a relationship]
>
>With the exception of Moira's posting, all the followups and replies have
>been from men. Don't women perceive themselves as being mistreated by men
>as much as men perceive themselves as being mistreated by women?
>
Actually, I did post a follow-up to Rick's article, but it didn't say
anything about women being mistreated by men. If I feel I'm being
mistreated I talk to the person first, and then I quit going out with
him if it continues. But my problem is usually the opposite of the one
discussed here - I usually get too much attention (read as "pressure")
than not enough. (Although lately things have been pretty damn good.)

	cheers -

	elizabeth g. purtell

	(Lady Godiva)