Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site uwmacc.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!cmcl2!seismo!uwvax!uwmacc!oyster From: oyster@uwmacc.UUCP (Vicious Oyster) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: A Question for the Women(Color Analysis) Message-ID: <1372@uwmacc.UUCP> Date: Wed, 7-Aug-85 10:48:56 EDT Article-I.D.: uwmacc.1372 Posted: Wed Aug 7 10:48:56 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 10-Aug-85 23:18:48 EDT References: <1266@eagle.UUCP><515@unc.UUCP> Reply-To: oyster@uwmacc.UUCP (Vicious Oyster) Organization: UWisconsin-Madison Academic Comp Center Lines: 15 In article <98@unc.unc.UUCP> fsks@unc.UUCP (Frank Silbermann) writes: >Conclusion: trying too look good to please yourself (as opposed >to pleasing other people) is equally vain, perhaps even more so. > >Besides, this constant harping about the importance of pleasing >oneself (and to H*ll with what other people think) sounds pretty >egocentric to me. I don't really want to start yet another long-ranging argument where neither side will change (and no, you *can't* choose your emotions :-), but I'd like to respectfully submit that trying to look good *period* sounds counterproductive. (Come to think of it, the first paragraph above may be saying this). I equate it with what has been said about finding an SO; the best way to do it is to not always be trying. Now, trying *not* to look *bad* may be alright...