Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site decwrl.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!ucbvax!decwrl!levasseur@morgan.DEC (Ray EMD & S Admin 223-5027) From: levasseur@morgan.DEC (Ray EMD & S Admin 223-5027) Newsgroups: net.motss Subject: Re: Bisexuality Anyone?.......I'll pass. Message-ID: <78@decwrl.UUCP> Date: Thu, 22-Aug-85 09:22:28 EDT Article-I.D.: decwrl.78 Posted: Thu Aug 22 09:22:28 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 25-Aug-85 04:17:45 EDT Sender: daemon@decwrl.UUCP Organization: Digital Equipment Corporation Lines: 32 Regarding "Bisexuality Anyone?" In the 15 years that I've been out I can't count the number of "Supposedly" bisexual men I've met. I have also dated about a half dozen of them and after all these years believe that they're among the most confused individuals as far as sexual orientation goes. Kinda makes me remember a poster that one bi guy I knew had hanging in his bathroom with a two headed rooster; heads point- ing in opposite directions. The caption read, "I don't know which way my pecker is pointing!" Yes, they claim to have the best of both worlds but can make the worst of both worlds for their partners unless their partners are also bisexual. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I just can't see a boy and girl, with another boy or girl on the side, three boys, three girls or any other permutations and combin- ations of more than two. If I had a mate, I would want them to know what they wanted and not worry if they were going to run off with a woman if the spirit moved them. And yes, these guys can hide behind their marriage when the going gets tough on the same sexed side of the fence. I became very good friends with the wife of one of the guys I was dating. We both agreed to feeling used by the guy and I broke it off. I was married to my wife and loved her very much. She did not believe in true bisexuality and neither do I. I've asked a lot of the guys, if they really had to make a choice, what would it be? 99 out of a hundred opted for men hands down. Most were afraid to make such a committment and preferred to walk both sides of the fence. When my marriage ended I finally faced the fact that I was gay and had attempted lieing to myself. Some guys have asked if I would ever sleep with a woman again, and I highly doubt that it would ever happen. I enjoy the company of women a lot but wouldn't sleep withthem now. The bottom line is that I fel there are very few "True Bisexuals" I may be all wrong as this is only from my own observations and the conversations of others. Ray