Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/5/84; site reed.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!mhuxt!houxm!vax135!cornell!uw-beaver!tektronix!reed!purtell From: purtell@reed.UUCP (Lady Godiva) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Your SO's friends and you Message-ID: <1831@reed.UUCP> Date: Fri, 23-Aug-85 14:38:24 EDT Article-I.D.: reed.1831 Posted: Fri Aug 23 14:38:24 1985 Date-Received: Sun, 25-Aug-85 01:46:08 EDT References: <467@moncol.UUCP> <5608@tektronix.UUCP> <1084@lumiere.UUCP> <481@moncol.UUCP> Reply-To: purtell@reed.UUCP (Lady Godiva) Organization: Reed College, Portland, Oregon Lines: 21 Summary: In article <481@moncol.UUCP> john@moncol.UUCP (John Ruschmeyer) writes: > >A note on this whole discussion: [The discussion being what people owed to each other in a relationship] > >With the exception of Moira's posting, all the followups and replies have >been from men. Don't women perceive themselves as being mistreated by men >as much as men perceive themselves as being mistreated by women? > Actually, I did post a follow-up to Rick's article, but it didn't say anything about women being mistreated by men. If I feel I'm being mistreated I talk to the person first, and then I quit going out with him if it continues. But my problem is usually the opposite of the one discussed here - I usually get too much attention (read as "pressure") than not enough. (Although lately things have been pretty damn good.) cheers - elizabeth g. purtell (Lady Godiva)