Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site watnot.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!water!watnot!grwalter From: grwalter@watnot.UUCP (Fred) Newsgroups: net.philosophy,net.religion,net.singles Subject: Re: Re: marriage = commitment Message-ID: <11274@watnot.UUCP> Date: Fri, 12-Jul-85 14:56:04 EDT Article-I.D.: watnot.11274 Posted: Fri Jul 12 14:56:04 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 13-Jul-85 08:26:29 EDT References: <508@ttidcc.UUCP> <485@oliveb.UUCP> <684@lll-crg.ARPA> <500@oliveb.UUCP> Reply-To: grwalter@watnot.UUCP (Fred) Organization: U of Waterloo, Ontario Lines: 29 Xref: watmath net.philosophy:2033 net.religion:7233 net.singles:7760 Summary: In article <500@oliveb.UUCP> rap@oliveb.UUCP (Robert A. Pease) writes: >> I've heard a lot of talk about how getting married can ruin things. I'm not >> sure I understand this (I have never been married). What's the big difference >> between being married and living together. I lived with a guy for 1.5 years >> and at some points I think it would have been easier if we had been married, >> although neither of us was ready for that. >> >> Rea Simpson > >I don't know why it happened, but when I got married something >changed. We both noticed it and had a few minor arguments because of >it. In our case, though, all it took was to recognise what was >happening and make an extra effort to be more tollerent. >-- > Robert A. Pease I don't see how a relationship could change for the worse just because you were married. Any such change would probably (to my way of thinking) have happened even if you didn't get married. I don't know your situation and so am curious as to what effect marriage had on your relationship (and on relationships in general - little things to watch out for when I finally find that special someone(s) whom I will marry). just curious fred UUCP : {decvax|utzoo|ihnp4|allegra|clyde}!watmath!watnot!grwalter CSNET : grwalter%watnot@waterloo.csnet ARPA : grwalter%watnot%waterloo.csnet@csnet-relay.arpa