Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site watnot.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!water!watnot!grwalter From: grwalter@watnot.UUCP (Fred) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: More women than men Message-ID: <11278@watnot.UUCP> Date: Sun, 14-Jul-85 10:38:09 EDT Article-I.D.: watnot.11278 Posted: Sun Jul 14 10:38:09 1985 Date-Received: Mon, 15-Jul-85 06:33:12 EDT References:<589@unc.UUCP> <852@ihlpg.UUCP> Reply-To: grwalter@watnot.UUCP (Fred) Organization: U of Waterloo, Ontario Lines: 44 Summary: In article <852@ihlpg.UUCP> jeand@ihlpg.UUCP (AMBAR) writes: >> If it is true that women sever the relationship more often than men, >> it is because of the traditionally passive role women play in courting. >> Men make the offers, and women accept or reject them. >> A woman may >> continue to receive and reject new offers while she is committed to >> an exclusive relationship. > >Sez who? I won't. Well, let me elaborate. If I and my SO agree that >we can both date others, then we do. If we agree that we won't, we >don't. What's sauce for the gander, etc. > >> The man in an exclusive relationship, >> on the other hand, may not extend offers to other women without risk >> of destroying the relationship he has. >> Frank Silbermann >-- > AMBAR I think what Frank meant by 'continue to receive and reject new offers' ^^^^^^ was that the woman would have men asking her out, which wouldn't disturb the relationship - as long as she did not accept any of their offers. Thus, she would have a selection of guys who are interested in her available if her current relationship goes sour (assuming of course that she wants to be courting/having a relationship). On the other hand, since very few women ask men out, the man would only be able tell if a women is interested in him (ie. in a relationship way) by dating her - which tends to do funny things to relationships. So for all he knows, his current SO may be the only one around which is interested in him, and as such he doesn't want to lose her. (Naturally you know that there will always be another fish in the sea, but you may not find it for a long time - just re-read some of the old postings by the guys on this net.) hmmm. if you are dating others (besides your SO) then it can't be an exclusive relationship and so what was said probably doesn't hold. Fred UUCP : {decvax|utzoo|ihnp4|allegra|clyde}!watmath!watnot!grwalter CSNET : grwalter%watnot@waterloo.csnet ARPA : grwalter%watnot%waterloo.csnet@csnet-relay.arpa Where am I ? More importantly, WHY AM I HERE ?