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From: rap@oliveb.UUCP (Robert A. Pease)
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Subject: Re: Re: marriage = commitment
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Date: Wed, 10-Jul-85 18:46:41 EDT
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> 
> I've heard a lot of talk about how getting married can ruin things.  I'm not 
> sure I understand this (I have never been married).  What's the big difference
> between being married and living together.  I lived with a guy for 1.5 years
> and at some points I think it would have been easier if we had been married,
> although neither of us was ready for that.
> 
> 				Rea Simpson

I don't know why  it  happened,  but  when  I  got  married  something
changed.  We  both noticed it and had a few minor arguments because of
it.  In our case, though, all  it  took  was  to  recognise  what  was
happening and make an extra effort to be more tollerent.
-- 
					Robert A. Pease
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