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From: jeand@ihlpg.UUCP (AMBAR)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Aggressiveness
Message-ID: <854@ihlpg.UUCP>
Date: Mon, 15-Jul-85 11:05:29 EDT
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Posted: Mon Jul 15 11:05:29 1985
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> If I were interested in the woman, then I'd love for her to ask me out,
> to bed, or whatever.  Who WOULDN'T want his desires fulfilled, without
> even having to ask?  On the other hand, if I were NOT interested in the
> woman, then I would hate it.  Having to reject someone is ALMOST as bad
> as BEING rejected.            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
> 	Frank Silbermann

Yes!!!  And I still haven't learned how to do it to my satisfaction (ie,
gently, but clearly--I tend to err on either side, and resulting situations
are not nice.)  
I know it's possible--but how?  
I will bet that someone out 'there' is thinking, 'You're young--you'll learn.'
To which I reply, how many more people will I hurt before I get my act 
together?  I'd rather learn from someone else's experience.  There's enough
pain in the world already--why create more?

-- 
					AMBAR
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