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From: grwalter@watnot.UUCP (Fred)
Newsgroups: net.philosophy,net.religion,net.singles
Subject: Re: Re: marriage = commitment
Message-ID: <11274@watnot.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 12-Jul-85 14:56:04 EDT
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Posted: Fri Jul 12 14:56:04 1985
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Summary: 

In article <500@oliveb.UUCP> rap@oliveb.UUCP (Robert A. Pease) writes:
>> I've heard a lot of talk about how getting married can ruin things.  I'm not 
>> sure I understand this (I have never been married). What's the big difference
>> between being married and living together.  I lived with a guy for 1.5 years
>> and at some points I think it would have been easier if we had been married,
>> although neither of us was ready for that.
>> 
>> 				Rea Simpson
>
>I don't know why  it  happened,  but  when  I  got  married  something
>changed.  We  both noticed it and had a few minor arguments because of
>it.  In our case, though, all  it  took  was  to  recognise  what  was
>happening and make an extra effort to be more tollerent.
>-- 
>					Robert A. Pease

I don't see how a relationship could change for the worse just because you
were married. Any such change would probably (to my way of thinking) have
happened even if you didn't get married. I don't know your situation and so
am curious as to what effect marriage had on your relationship (and on
relationships in general - little things to watch out for when I finally
find that special someone(s) whom I will marry).

just curious
fred

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