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From: dw@rocksvax.UUCP (Don Wegeng)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: What now?  (Depressed ramblings)
Message-ID: <742@rocksvax.UUCP>
Date: Tue, 15-Jan-85 00:09:39 EST
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Posted: Tue Jan 15 00:09:39 1985
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Reply-To: dw@rocksvax.UUCP (Don Wegeng)
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In article <2206@nsc.UUCP> chuqui@nsc.UUCP (Chuqui Q. Koala) writes:
>I should point out one thing-- some relationships simply cannot move into
>different forms and survive.

It's a shame, but it's true.  I had a beautiful relationship for
my last two years of college which fell apart quickly after we graduated
(we both moved to the same (new) city).  I doubt if I ever know
for sure why it happened, but my best guess is that between the pressures
of new jobs, making new friends (and missing our old friends), etc. there
was just too much strain on the relationship.  Let me tell you, suddenly
finding yourself without any close friends nearby is quite a shock to
the system.  I spent quite a bit of money on long distance phone bills
that first year.

Jon, the things that cause relationships to end are just too complicated
for people to figure out in a short period of time.  Learn to accept
that you're going to hurt for what's going to seem like a long time, but 
you're going to make it.  There are a lot of us out here who are living
proof of this.

-- 
/Don

"You cannot kill a cat merely by getting it caught under a fan belt;
 if it were that easy, people would do it more often."

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