Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site rocksvax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!allegra!princeton!rocksvax!dw From: dw@rocksvax.UUCP (Don Wegeng) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: What now? (Depressed ramblings) Message-ID: <742@rocksvax.UUCP> Date: Tue, 15-Jan-85 00:09:39 EST Article-I.D.: rocksvax.742 Posted: Tue Jan 15 00:09:39 1985 Date-Received: Tue, 15-Jan-85 05:45:46 EST References: <263@boulder.UUCP> <1328@hao.UUCP> <2447@umcp-cs.UUCP> <2206@nsc.UUCP> Reply-To: dw@rocksvax.UUCP (Don Wegeng) Organization: Xerox Lines: 29 Summary: In article <2206@nsc.UUCP> chuqui@nsc.UUCP (Chuqui Q. Koala) writes: >I should point out one thing-- some relationships simply cannot move into >different forms and survive. It's a shame, but it's true. I had a beautiful relationship for my last two years of college which fell apart quickly after we graduated (we both moved to the same (new) city). I doubt if I ever know for sure why it happened, but my best guess is that between the pressures of new jobs, making new friends (and missing our old friends), etc. there was just too much strain on the relationship. Let me tell you, suddenly finding yourself without any close friends nearby is quite a shock to the system. I spent quite a bit of money on long distance phone bills that first year. Jon, the things that cause relationships to end are just too complicated for people to figure out in a short period of time. Learn to accept that you're going to hurt for what's going to seem like a long time, but you're going to make it. There are a lot of us out here who are living proof of this. -- /Don "You cannot kill a cat merely by getting it caught under a fan belt; if it were that easy, people would do it more often." arpa: Wegeng.Henr@Xerox.ARPA uucp: {allegra,princeton,decvax!rochester,amd,sunybcs}!rocksvax!dw || ihnp4!tropix!ritcv!rocksvax!dw