Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site watcgl.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!watcgl!dmmartindale From: dmmartindale@watcgl.UUCP (Dave Martindale) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Ann Landers' Sex Survey Message-ID: <1013@watcgl.UUCP> Date: Sat, 19-Jan-85 21:02:52 EST Article-I.D.: watcgl.1013 Posted: Sat Jan 19 21:02:52 1985 Date-Received: Sat, 19-Jan-85 23:35:52 EST References: <35@ISM780.UUCP> Reply-To: dmmartindale@watcgl.UUCP (Dave Martindale) Organization: U of Waterloo, Ontario Lines: 12 I don't understand why the emphasis is on *choosing between* sex and hugging/cuddling. Why not have *both*? The quotes seem to indicate that some women like sex, and some don't, and this determines which choice they made (nobody says anything about not liking cuddling). It disturbs me that the women quoted who don't like sex invariably seem to blame it entirely on the man. Were all of these men so completely obstinate or insensitive that they just didn't care whether their wives/lovers enjoyed sex, and were unresponsive to all attempts by the women to change that? Or must the women bear some responsibility too?