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From: ingham@unm-cvax.UUCP
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: the meaning of love
Message-ID: <141@unm-cvax.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 7-Feb-85 13:24:04 EST
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Posted: Thu Feb  7 13:24:04 1985
Date-Received: Wed, 9-Jan-85 02:31:33 EST
Reply-To: ingham@unm-cvax.UUCP (Kenneth Ingham)
Organization: Univ. of New Mexico, Albuquerque
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Keywords: love


A while back I did some heavy thinking into what it meant to tell
a SO "I love you".  My definition below is not perfect, but it is a
start.

Love is an individual thing, so love is different for each person.  The
only way to really know what another person means is by their actions.
Saying 'I love you' allows the other person to see what you mean by love
in your actions.

Love is sharing.  Sharing both joys and disappointments.

Love is finding happiness in the other person's happiness.  This is
related to the sharing mentioned above.  When you are happy, it makes
me happy (I guess it sort of rubs off...).

Love is caring.  It seems to me that it would be impossible to love
someone and not care for them.

Love is freely given, with nothing asked for in return.

Love is trusting.

Love is honest.  Love cannot survive in a dishonest atmosphere.

Love is tolerant and willing to compromise.  Nobody is one hundred
percent compatible with anyone else; the ability to bend a little is
required for love.


-- 
Kenneth Ingham, UNM Computing Center, Albuquerque, NM 87131, 505-277-8044

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