Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site pucc-i Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxr!ihnp4!inuxc!pur-ee!CS-Mordred!Pucc-H:Pucc-I:agz From: agz@pucc-i (Andrew Banta) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: What now? (Depressed ramblings) Message-ID: <813@pucc-i> Date: Mon, 14-Jan-85 04:52:37 EST Article-I.D.: pucc-i.813 Posted: Mon Jan 14 04:52:37 1985 Date-Received: Tue, 15-Jan-85 02:23:41 EST References: <263@boulder.UUCP> Organization: Dept. of Mental Instability, Purdue University Lines: 27 [you may not be able to see this line] Jon, I'm not big on giving advice, mainly because I think I fall far short of the experience in many cases to do so. But I do feel sympathetically for your problem. I have a female friend who I spend quite large amounts of time with. It is quite clear to both of us that we are not suited for each other in terms of marriage or SOship or anything else along those lines. We ARE terrific friends. Shared meals, pizzas, etc are probably the things that would be most apparent to most other people that we got along exceptionally well. Shared conversations and mutual trust for each other is what is apparent to both of us. I've been finding it rather difficult to stay away from her for any extended periods of time, and she feels the same way. Now I'm trying to figure out what will happen when we go our separate ways. I don't know if we will ever have to, but it seems rather inevitable. I really don't even know why I'm posting this, except possibly to tell you you aren't alone in this situation. Unfortunately, the system is telling me it is leaving in a few minutes, so I can't continue. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Andy Banta {decvax!allegra!ihnp4}!pur-ee!pucc-k!agz Dept. of Mental Instability, Purdue University --- "I'm OK, You're a CS Major" ------------------------------------------------------------------------------