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From: agz@pucc-i (Andrew Banta)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: What now?  (Depressed ramblings)
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Date: Mon, 14-Jan-85 04:52:37 EST
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Posted: Mon Jan 14 04:52:37 1985
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Jon,

I'm not big on giving advice, mainly because I think I fall far short of
the experience in many cases to do so.  But I do feel sympathetically
for your problem.  I have a female friend who I spend quite large
amounts of time with.  It is quite clear to both of us that we are not
suited for each other in terms of marriage or SOship or anything else
along those lines.  We ARE terrific friends.  Shared meals, pizzas, etc
are probably the things that would be most apparent to most other people
that we got along exceptionally well.  Shared conversations and mutual
trust for each other is what is apparent to both of us.

I've been finding it rather difficult to stay away from her for any
extended periods of time, and she feels the same way.  Now I'm trying to
figure out what will happen when we go our separate ways.  I don't know
if we will ever have to, but it seems rather inevitable.  I really don't
even know why I'm posting this, except possibly to tell you you aren't
alone in this situation.  Unfortunately, the system is telling me it is
leaving in a few minutes, so I can't continue.


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Andy Banta			{decvax!allegra!ihnp4}!pur-ee!pucc-k!agz
Dept. of Mental Instability, Purdue University --- "I'm OK, You're a CS Major"
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