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From: mat@hou4b.UUCP (Mark Terribile)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Signals (digression)
Message-ID: <1243@hou4b.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 27-Dec-84 19:46:46 EST
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Posted: Thu Dec 27 19:46:46 1984
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Excuse me.  I'm in no better position to speak on such matters as Jeff, but

>>> When in doubt, ASK!  There is NO substitute for openness and honesty.
>>> If you give these, and presume the same, you won't be wrong.
>
>> From: aeq@pucc-h (Jeff Sargent)
>> Just hurt.
>
>	[...] you want guarantees [...] You have to make your choice, and
>	take your lumps; [...] Just do it, and stop whining about it.
>	Join reality, man.  -- 

Will you please quit that macho crap.  The man is being open about difficulties
that you've never faced.  If you had, you might be more sympathetic.  You might
even care.  That's right,  C  A  R  E .  A new word for you, right?  It's clear
that Jeff has to be able to accept the risks of failure ... it's not clear that
he is strong enough to take the damage -- at least not clear to HIM, and that's
what matters.  How little you can care is evident, and it doesn't matter.

This group is supposed to be here for discussion and support.  One man has
come to it for just that reason and he gets disdain, insult, and cruelty.

Jeff, if you can take this, you are probably stronger than you understand.
-- 

	from Mole End			Mark Terribile
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