Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site amdcad.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!cbosgd!ihnp4!amdcad!phil From: phil@amdcad.UUCP (Phil Ngai) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: gays masquerading as hetrosexuals Message-ID: <436@amdcad.UUCP> Date: Sun, 23-Dec-84 17:43:35 EST Article-I.D.: amdcad.436 Posted: Sun Dec 23 17:43:35 1984 Date-Received: Mon, 24-Dec-84 03:21:10 EST Distribution: net Organization: AMDCAD, Sunnyvale, CA Lines: 26 I was talking to a friend last night and discovered we had both dated homosexuals. In her case she went out with him for six months and wondered why he never touched her. When she met some other women who had gone through the same thing with the same man, she concluded he was just using her as "cover". In my case, I dated a woman and ended up losing her to another woman. I don't have any complaints to raise here (although I think my friend might), it just struck me that before I moved to California, such events would have been hard to imagine. So I would like to ask, in this globe spanning forum, if this kind of thing seems to be more common in California? I would like to emphasize that I'm not upset with the woman I dated. I just wasn't her type. I don't expect her to say "I can't go out with you because I'm gay" because that's not the kind of thing you want to say to a stranger. She could have said "I don't think you're my type" but she probably thought I might make a good friend and didn't want to cut things off so quickly. And I think that's pretty neat. (it was still frustrating, but, no pain no gain) -- AMD assumes no responsibility for anything I may say here. Phil Ngai (408) 749-5790 UUCP: {ucbvax,decwrl,ihnp4,allegra}!amdcad!phil ARPA: amdcad!phil@decwrl.ARPA