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From: phil@amdcad.UUCP (Phil Ngai)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: gays masquerading as hetrosexuals
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Date: Sun, 23-Dec-84 17:43:35 EST
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Posted: Sun Dec 23 17:43:35 1984
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I was talking to a friend last night and discovered we had both dated
homosexuals. In her case she went out with him for six months and wondered
why he never touched her. When she met some other women who had gone
through the same thing with the same man, she concluded he was just
using her as "cover". In my case, I dated a woman and ended up losing
her to another woman.

I don't have any complaints to raise here (although I think my friend
might), it just struck me that before I moved to California, such events
would have been hard to imagine. So I would like to ask, in this globe
spanning forum, if this kind of thing seems to be more common in California?

I would like to emphasize that I'm not upset with the woman I dated.
I just wasn't her type. I don't expect her to say "I can't go out with
you because I'm gay" because that's not the kind of thing you want to
say to a stranger. She could have said "I don't think you're my type"
but she probably thought I might make a good friend and didn't want
to cut things off so quickly. And I think that's pretty neat.
(it was still frustrating, but, no pain no gain)

-- 
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 Phil Ngai (408) 749-5790
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