Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84 SMI; site sun.uucp Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!bonnie!akgua!mcnc!decvax!decwrl!sun!sunny From: sunny@sun.uucp (Sunny Kirsten) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: Signals Message-ID: <1882@sun.uucp> Date: Fri, 14-Dec-84 19:26:26 EST Article-I.D.: sun.1882 Posted: Fri Dec 14 19:26:26 1984 Date-Received: Tue, 18-Dec-84 03:18:06 EST References: <1555@pucc-h> Organization: Sun Microsystems, Inc. Lines: 34 > By any odd and lucky chance has anyone (even Miss Manners) published a book > giving a list of signals and their meanings (perhaps customized for different > regions of the country)? Example: If one young female friend of mine had > merely sent me a Christmas card, I would have just considered it an act of > friendship. Is it still just an act of friendship when she encloses a > wallet-size photo of herself? (Surely she didn't think I'd forgotten what > face went with her name.) > > If there is somewhere a compendium of answers to questions like this, I would > like to know where, and probably so would other readers of this group. > > -- > -- Jeff Sargent > {decvax|harpo|ihnp4|inuxc|ucbvax}!pur-ee!pucc-h:aeq > Clearing /tmp Oh, Jeff, Jeff, Jeff..... Things are what they are, and nothing else. You can disbelieve reality and pretend they are anything else you want, but you won't have altered reality. When in doubt, ASK! There is NO substitute for openness and honesty. If you give these, and presume the same, you won't be wrong. Thus: You have a Christmas card with a Photo, nothing else. The fact you received them means somebody likes you. To some level. IF you don't know how much, ASK. If you're interested, evidence it. If you're not, ignore it, or better yet, say so. There are no set of signals which are standard. Everyone is an individual. Treat them that way. Give them your love however you can, how it will be accepted. Seek not, that ye may find. Jeff: Please read I Corinthians 13. Sunny -- {ucbvax,decvax,ihnp4}!sun!sunny