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From: aeq@pucc-h (Jeff Sargent)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: How single is single? (open letter to Jeff)
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Date: Wed, 19-Dec-84 00:26:15 EST
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From Dave (Snoopy) Seifert (mako!seifert):

> This is one reason why I've been encouraging you to take you-know-who up on
> her offer of SO-ship.  Having someone care about you and *accept* you does
> wonders for all those anxieties.

But she and I already broke up!  Now that second sentence will be answered
(sort of) in a forthcoming article.

> If you want to analyse something take up chess or the stock market.
> Relationships work better if you just enjoy them.

At the moment I don't dare NOT analyse (are you English?) all my feelings and
most of my relationships or desires for same.  I have been told by my therapist
that indeed I can't enjoy a relationship when I need one so much.  If I could
get to the point where it wasn't such a pressing need, perhaps I could enjoy
relating a lot more.

-- 
-- Jeff Sargent
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Jesus has creched the devil's system.