Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site othervax.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!bonnie!akgua!mcnc!philabs!micomvax!othervax!softech From: softech@othervax.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Living together without SEX. Message-ID: <362@othervax.UUCP> Date: Fri, 7-Dec-84 00:20:45 EST Article-I.D.: othervax.362 Posted: Fri Dec 7 00:20:45 1984 Date-Received: Sun, 9-Dec-84 06:22:50 EST References: <614@pucc-k> <1514@pucc-h> Reply-To: softech@othervax.UUCP (Softech Inc.) Organization: Philips/Micom - Montreal, Canada Lines: 23 Summary: Keywords: [munch, munch, munch] Our wise and (very) christian friend Jeff Sargent introduces the concept of co-habitating with your SO, but refraining from any sexual activity (for a while). This is supposed to allow you to work out the bugs of sharing living quarters, then you can engage in the "more complicated" job of sexual fulfillment... Say what? Come ON, guys and gals! Everybody KNOWS that healthy, ravenous sex will actually help a great deal in bringing two loving people closer together. If you have enough problems with sex (as with Mr Sargent) that it complicates your life instead of making it more enjoyable, then you need HELP. And just sharing quarters in abstinence will only postpone the showdown. You should be able to have a happy, healthy and satisfying sex life even if you aren't living with your SO. If you don't have that BEFORE moving in together, don't even THINK it could somehow work out. See your local sex therapist. And no Jeff, prayer doesn't help. Richard Blouin, ...!philabs!micomvax!othervax!softech