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From: gino@voder.UUCP (Gino Bloch)
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Subject: Re: Meeting the Parents
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Date: Thu, 29-Nov-84 21:28:01 EST
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[the line-eating bug is my SO]

> It occurs to me that if you and your SO could
> successfully deal with the stresses of sharing a residence, for an
> extended period, *without* using sex to paper over disagreements, then
> your friendship would be so solid that you would greatly increase your
> chances of a successful marriage, should you decide to exercise that option.
> Another way to look at it is: one thing at a time.  Work out the balances
> of plain vanilla daily life first; when they are running reasonably
> swimmingly, *then* start working on the adjustments of sex.  Don't try
> to do everything at once.
> -- Jeff Sargent
> {decvax|harpo|ihnp4|inuxc|ucbvax}!pur-ee!pucc-h:aeq

I propose working out the balances of sex first; when they are running
reasonably well, *then* start working on the adjustments of living together.
-- 
Gene E. Bloch (...!nsc!voder!gino)