Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site ubc-vision.CDN Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxj!ihnp4!alberta!ubc-vision!mokhtar From: mokhtar@ubc-vision.CDN (mokhtar) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: To tease or not? Message-ID: <630@ubc-vision.CDN> Date: Thu, 11-Oct-84 18:26:11 EDT Article-I.D.: ubc-visi.630 Posted: Thu Oct 11 18:26:11 1984 Date-Received: Sat, 13-Oct-84 06:25:11 EDT Organization: UBC Vision, Vancouver, B.C., Canada Lines: 27 > Well, if you disagree with me there, then here's another issue. Young women > are indoctrinated to want to be attractive (included in this are looks, > clothing, and charm), and yet are discouraged from facing their sexuality. > We're all supposed to be pretty and get the attention of men, but sex is a > Bad Thing, and sometimes the unmentionability of S** is so much that one > doesn't know what do when It looms (causing a panic reaction). In other words, this unfortunate young woman has one of the following choices: (a) Be a tease, that is, choose the only 'acceptable release', or (b) 'Face her sexuality', that is, break the most unbreakable rules of all, face the 'tabooest' taboo of all, fight against all odds, hurt a lot of people and become a castaway! A hell of a choice, isn't it? Nevertheless, I feel that she should do what she feels is best for her and being a tease won't solve the problem, but then, I am the type who always enjoys a good fight! Farzin Mokhtarian < ubc-vision!mokhtar > ----------------------------------- "Teaming with desire fraught with pain I have stood on the earth so that stars might praise me and breezes caress me"