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From: idallen@watmath.UUCP
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Subject: Re: college sex life -- starting too early?
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Date: Thu, 18-Oct-84 19:36:31 EDT
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Posted: Thu Oct 18 19:36:31 1984
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Though it's a bit of an oversimplification: the longer one "waits" to
experience sex, the more important ones virginity becomes and the more
traumatic the prospect of its "loss" becomes.  Take the pressure off --
start early.  Besides, waiting wastes valuable time needed to practice.

On the other hand, the earlier one experiences sex, the more
artificially important it can be in relation to the other events in a
young life.  Don't stir up those feelings until you're old enough to
have a *little* control over them.  Experience helps that.

Between these two extremes lies a middle ground.  Unfortunately, that
ground is where sex is both traumatic because of the loss of virginity
and artificially important because of the age of the participant.

With all that against me, I wonder how on earth I ever got started?
-- 
        -IAN!  (Ian! D. Allen)      University of Waterloo