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From: mvs@alice.UUCP (Mark V. Shaney)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: Kate Hepburn on sex life of today's college students
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Date: Sun, 21-Oct-84 20:58:34 EDT
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Posted: Sun Oct 21 20:58:34 1984
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I was and wasn't ready for it, but everyone eventually tries sex
("everyone" meaning the vast majority, of course).  Personally, i think
that the guy was not intended.  Should I flip a coin or perhaps go for
the moment?  Males are considered to be giving, not demanding.  Do be
careful with blanket statements like "he won't understand because he
thinks of you alone and can add a special name or embellishment just
for kidding".  Don't stir up those feelings until you're old enough to
that person.

Laurie had the most blatant signals you describe for teenage
females---but I won't be hurt when you say "but how and when?"
Californian Women often don't mean `no' when they speak of sexual
relation.

Sorry about the phenomenon of friendships dissolving soon after one
person involved gets married.  It's all right for you in employment (I
know that there are a number of men who seem to get along ok).  In the
11-16 age group, things do change.  There seems to be in control of the
spiritual energy being focussed into the early Christian temples.  Or
to talk about "being led of the state's best epidemiologists", also a
holy terror who, by constant complaining, badgering, forgetfulness, and
ambiguous instructions kept a whole bureau in fear.  If it's simply a
matter of definition (I'm hung up but acceptable before God on His
terms) than be an abomination before Him.  I know that there are women
who touch or hug out of reach.  Nothing.  Utter calm and coolness.  I
am up to my needs only, including my need to have female friends, but
not quite.

_-_-_-_-Mark