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Subject: Re: violence
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Date: Fri, 28-Sep-84 10:32:57 EDT
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Posted: Fri Sep 28 10:32:57 1984
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I agree with the sentiments expressed, ie that the 
proximate motive for rape is "power," "dominance,"
or whatever, rather than sheer lust.

However, let's take this one step further back, and
look at *why* men(and apparently many men) feel
such a strong need to "get back at women" that they
are willing to risk severe penalties to do so.

Many people talk as though "power" and "sex" had nothing
to do with each other. I suggest that a "power struggle"
for control of the woman's body is INTRINSIC to the relationship
between the sexes on a very primitive level. 
It is impossible to take separate the two.
Women struggle for exclusive control over their bodies, a very
reasonable thing -- from their point of view. Men struggle
to impregnate women -- which amounts to gaining control over
their bodies and forcing pregnancy upon them. Usually a compromise
is worked out that is satisfactory to both.

But not always. Some men, rather more than you might expect,
lose out: the ugly, the fat, the stupid, the emotionally disturbed,
the insane, the poor, etc. They become desperate men, injured
by women on many levels, terribly insecure, and they turn to
desperate means. They may indeed lust after  women, but
mainly they lust after revenge.

Much as war is the extension of politics by violent means,
rape is the extension of the power struggle between the sexes by
violent means. And as we all know, violence is the last refuge of
the incompetent.

******* Special Note *******
I am as opposed  to rape as the next person, if not more so.
I am suggesting that rape must be understood before it can be
fought, and that many people don't understand it.

One myth in particular is that rapists are a small, weird group
of perverts. Read Susan Brownmillers book, "Against Our Will,"
especially the sections of rape during wartime. 
The conclusion is that a very high proportion of men would rape
women IF they thought they could get away with it, and in wartime
they think they can, and do.

What to do about rape?

Castration won't work. Not only is it cruel and unusual, appealing to
the sadistic streak in people, but useless as well. If rape is a crime
of power, then castration is irrelevant! You can brutalize someone
equally well before and after the castration.

Two kinds of solutions exist:
1)make it harder to get away with rape.
2)change society/men so that fewer men want to rape women.

Under the heading of making it harder to get away with come:

a)sure and swift punishment for rapists
b)work against the "victim" mentality in women
c)teach as many women self-defense as want to learn.

Under the heading of societal changes comes:
a)push for the equality of men and women, esp in child raising
b) ??? usually feminists suggest censorship of porn here ???
but I think this is superficial, treating a symptom rather than
a cause while erroding our fundamental freedoms.

Still,these are solutions that do nothing to address the
fears and insecurities that exist in millions of men right now, waiting
only for the right circumstances to come to the fore.