Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.2 9/18/84; site amd.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!allegra!amd!phil From: phil@amd.UUCP (Phil Ngai) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: book:catching men (Picking up on Women's Signals, Part I) Message-ID: <419@amd.UUCP> Date: Sat, 13-Oct-84 13:53:01 EDT Article-I.D.: amd.419 Posted: Sat Oct 13 13:53:01 1984 Date-Received: Sun, 14-Oct-84 07:08:37 EDT References: <890@ihuxe.UUCP>, <2345@sdcc3.UUCP> <885@abnjh.UUCP> Organization: AMD, Santa Clara, CA Lines: 16 > You say you were trying to pick up her signals. Well, she is also reading > yours at the same time. And what she is "reading" from you when you "give her > this freedom to choose," is "Gee, if he were REALLY interested in me he'd be > making a bigger fuss, and wouldn't be so casual about the possibility of me > choosing someone else to go out with." Therefore, she ends up picking > another guy. One who "appears" more interested in her than you do! Well yes but would a woman pick a man based on how interested he was in her? That seems to put the cart before the horse. I would think she would pick someone based on how interested she was in him. Reciprocal interest would still be necessary, of course. -- Phil Ngai (408) 982-6554 UUCPnet: {ucbvax,decwrl,ihnp4,allegra,intelca}!amd!phil ARPAnet: amd!phil@decwrl.ARPA