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From: phipps@fortune.UUCP (Clay Phipps)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: What Is Sensitivity Good For Anyway?
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Date: Fri, 5-Oct-84 02:20:50 EDT
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Posted: Fri Oct  5 02:20:50 1984
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> Often there is no one to blame, but an immature person needs
> to find blame, and needs to exorcize the feeling of rejection 
> by fixing that blame solely on the other person.  

Agreed.  Black and white is much easier for many people to cope with 
than shades of grey.

> ... And I did *not* say that no women are immature like this, 
> or that there aren't some women who have it in for men and actually 
> want to kick their teeth in--there certainly are, and I've met some.  

There are vast differences in the amount of finesse
exhibited by people of both sexes when ending a relationship.
It varies from caring through obnoxious to downright violent
(I've never experienced the latter, fortunately;
perhaps there are drastic times that require drastic measures).

Of course, all we enlightened net denizens attempt to treat our partner
at the end of a relationship as she | he would want us to,
or at least as we would like to be treated, right ?

-- Clay Phipps

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