Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site pucc-k Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!burl!ulysses!mhuxj!ihnp4!inuxc!pur-ee!CS-Mordred!Pucc-H:Pucc-I:Pucc-K:agz From: agz@pucc-k (Andrew Banta) Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: teases Message-ID: <373@pucc-k> Date: Wed, 3-Oct-84 04:10:55 EDT Article-I.D.: pucc-k.373 Posted: Wed Oct 3 04:10:55 1984 Date-Received: Thu, 4-Oct-84 01:35:34 EDT References: <496@rocksvax.UUCP> Organization: Alcohol Design and Application Corp. Lines: 39 > This prompts me to wonder why a person (male or female) acts like a tease. > One reason might be that they enjoy it. Another reason might be that > they are still trying to figure out how they should deal with intimate > activities (such as sex). I honestly don't think all teases know how cruel they are being. I've run into my fair share of teases, and didn't really enjoy any of the experiences. In spit of this, I don't think that all of them realized they were being teases. I think some of the girls (I feel that I'm using this correctly here) felt it was perfectly natural to talk and joke about sex, make body contact, etc., without feeling that they were actually exciting/leading on (for lack of better words) the guy. Another comment as to why they tease may be that, in their own minds, they are proving that they have "what it takes" to get someone else interested in them. They can sit there (male or female) and continually lead someone on. When the other person finally asks if the tease is interested in something more serious, the tease can act hurt that such a thing would even come up, or simply prolong the charade long enough for that date/meeting/whatever to end, and then quickly lose the other person. It seems to me that this is the cruelest of teases, because the tease doesn't really get any pleasure out of it, simply the fact that they are attractive to that person. These are sometimes hard to read, sometimes not. If you think this is what you're getting yourself into some time, a real effective way to get back at the tease is to act gay. Another keen method I've heard of but never been able to figure out how to employ is to be totally disinterested. I find this kind of hard, but you had to show some interest to get to the point that you've figured it out. Acting gay does tend to put a damper on their "fun", though. Unfortunately, they will most likely improve their record elsewhere, in spite of this. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Andy Banta {decvax!allegra!inhp4}!pucc-k!agz Alcohol Design and Application Corp. --- Serving people over 21 years. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ "The bitch said something mystical, So I got back on the kerb again."