Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site denelcor.UUCP Path: utzoo!watmath!clyde!floyd!harpo!seismo!hao!denelcor!lmc From: lmc@denelcor.UUCP (Lyle McElhaney) Newsgroups: net.kids Subject: Catch-22 for gifted... Message-ID: <342@denelcor.UUCP> Date: Wed, 7-Mar-84 01:31:46 EST Article-I.D.: denelcor.342 Posted: Wed Mar 7 01:31:46 1984 Date-Received: Sat, 3-Mar-84 22:53:36 EST Organization: Denelcor, Aurora, CO Lines: 40 Schooling the gifted has been on my mind a lot lately. I have a son who is two years above his school class academically, and we have priced ourselves out of the market. Jon managed to skip two grades, and is now in fourth grade. Academically, he is doing very well; all A's and B's, even in arithmetic, which he dislikes. (Not forever, I hope.) He's attending a small private school, since Colorado public schools at their best aren't terribly good (particularly in gifted work). However, The school will be combining 5th and 6th grade next year, and the principal thinks that he may suffer from the social-maturity problems, since he still *acts* like a second grader. Even if he did continue on, the school teaches only up through 6th grade, at which point we face the same problem. The question is, what to do? Some other private schools in the area, which excell in providing needed discipline, refuse to take him as a fifth grader; he has to redo work that bored him the first time around. Others, with enough staff to individualize, cost too much (~$2500/yr and up). Public schools, as mentioned above, don't *really* care (public policy to the contrary notwithstanding). We could keep him home for a year, perhaps. Has this kind of Catch-22 situation happened to anyone else on the net? Any imaginative solutions? A mild warning, against skipping grades; I felt it was the best way to allow Jon to not be bored in school, and it did just that. But with current educational institutions being what they are, you are going to get squeezed somewhere along the line, unless you plan ahead. -- Lyle McElhaney (hao,brl-bmd,nbires,csu-cs,scgvaxd)!denelcor!lmc