Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!security!genrad!decvax!harpo!eagle!mhuxt!mhuxi!cbosgd!ihnp4!zehntel!zinfandel!joe From: joe@zinfandel.UUCP Newsgroups: net.singles Subject: Re: platonic inertia - (nf) Message-ID: <1119@zehntel.UUCP> Date: Fri, 15-Jul-83 01:21:32 EDT Article-I.D.: zehntel.1119 Posted: Fri Jul 15 01:21:32 1983 Date-Received: Sun, 17-Jul-83 13:30:35 EDT Lines: 19 #R:ecn-ec:14600030:zinfandel:10900030:000:821 zinfandel!joe Jul 12 09:02:00 1983 A simple approach that helps me in this area is to take pride in and not be ashamed of my sexual nature, and to realise that women are that way too. They appreciate and look for attraction in those they trust. As soon as they know your first name and have shown any interest in you *AT ALL* it's okay to suggest dinner, dancing, and the possibility of showing your mutual appreciation in more graphic terms later on. Also, the difficulty I had in believing I was attractive scuttled some *DETERMINED* attempts by women to bed me! ( I've got over that now...) If you don't realise that you deserve a particular type of attention it becomes harder to get through to you with the tools available to members of the appropriate sex, i.e. *HINTS* . Make it easy for them, expect it. Happy Trails... Joe Weinstein