From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!floyd!vax135!ariel!hou5f!npoiv!npois!wbux5!wb2!houxz!ihnp4!ixn5c!inuxc!pur-ee!uiucdcs!hennessy Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Feelings - (nf) Article-I.D.: uiucdcs.1681 Posted: Mon Mar 14 22:50:04 1983 Received: Fri Mar 18 20:04:42 1983 #N:uiucdcs:26600032:000:1759 uiucdcs!hennessy Mar 14 15:01:00 1983 Here I am sitting at this terminal and this thought comes to mind; WHERE ARE ALL THE GIRLS AT??? I guess i just don't understand society. Why can't a guy find someone to share his feelings with? Or is it that my true feelings just don't want to be shared? I don't know. When I walk down our Quad and see all those couples walking, talking, and etc., I just feel like something is missing. Maybe if I lived in another time, it might be better. But then it probably would be the same or worse, I'd end up dead before I lived this long (20 years). My problem might be that I just can't walk up to a girl and start talking. I think I'm afraid of the rejection, everytime I do talk some girl I don't know what to say. The only things I can talk about are those things that I like, which most girls don't like. To me things like, "How's it going?" and "How do you like the party so far?" seem so artificle. Women ought to know a guy's intention when she sees him comming; no talking, just moving. If people have to see if they're compatible, well then they don't have to talk about things like weather, get down to the real ideas. Sure you may ask, "What's your favorite group?" but don't ask "What's your major?" because if you are going to spend anytime with her, you are going to need to know if you'll like her music, but you'll only need to know her major to continue the sensless coversation. I know some guys who can just walk up to a MOTOS and say lets dance, and have a great time but; if you dance like a clod, and thats the last you'll see of her, then there is no sense in dancing. Well I don't want to seem like I'm harsh but those are my feelings. If there is anybody out there who feels the same or differently please reply in notes. Rob Hennessy