From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!floyd!cmcl2!philabs!sdcsvax!sdccsu3!iy47ab
Newsgroups: net.singles
Title: Re: Why do relationships break-up hard
Article-I.D.: sdccsu3.392
Posted: Tue Mar 15 10:23:04 1983
Received: Wed Mar 23 02:45:43 1983
References: rocksvax.215


Hmmm.  Interesting.  My first relationship broke up fairly hard, but then,
through the years, it came full-circle and we love each other more than ever.
No, we aren't "in love" -- I have my Strider now, though he's alone at present 
-- but there is an incredible closeness there.  No one knew each of us better
than each other, and though I have Strider,
there is still enough between John and I to keep us extremely close and very
very good friends.  I might add that Strider and John are very close also.

But my second relationship ended with a thud that never quite wore u
off, and I think it is because we really weren't finished; the catalyst on
my part to end the relationship was that Bri had never understood me from the
beginning, though he was a sweet, warm person, and on his end, he never did
understand why we had to break up.  He let me go (what else could he do?) but
we now only meet occasionally at parties and the relationship is quite
painfully strained.  

arwen


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