From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!npoiv!hou5f!Lloyd Newsgroups: net.women Title: Re: friends and lovers Article-I.D.: hou5f.228 Posted: Wed Mar 9 15:54:38 1983 Received: Thu Mar 10 04:47:23 1983 References: crimson.1469 sun.210 Unfortunately, sex and/or its enjoyment (lets not get bogged down in semantics) falls into two broadly based categories; namely, gratuitous and intimate. The former is usually considered to have selfish motives while the latter tends to be reserved for the "closest" and therefore the "most intimate" of friendships Given this premise, the suggestion of sexual activity from either sex attempts to move the relationship to one or the other categories with predictable results. Lloyd