From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!npoiv!hou5f!Lloyd
Newsgroups: net.women
Title: Re: friends and lovers
Article-I.D.: hou5f.228
Posted: Wed Mar  9 15:54:38 1983
Received: Thu Mar 10 04:47:23 1983
References: crimson.1469 sun.210

Unfortunately, sex and/or its enjoyment (lets not get bogged down in semantics)
falls into two broadly based categories; namely, gratuitous and intimate.
The former is usually considered to have selfish motives while the latter tends
to be reserved for the "closest" and therefore the "most intimate" of friendships
	Given this premise, the suggestion of sexual activity from either sex
attempts to move the relationship to one or the other categories with 
predictable results.
		Lloyd