From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!seismo!hao!cires!harkins Newsgroups: net.singles Title: telepathy N Article-I.D.: cires.1992 Posted: Tue Feb 22 14:30:43 1983 Received: Wed Feb 23 05:49:17 1983 clarifying just how things stand between you is sort of akin to making a fool of yourself in a big class by asking the question that everybody else is too scared to ask; in both cases, more than one person is glad somebody asked... nothing ventured, nothing gained might be (interpersonally) paraphrased as something like "you have to be strong" claro? ernie harkins