From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!npoiv!hou5f!hou5b!hou5c!hou5e!hou5a!hou5d!houxz!ihnp4!ihldt!luchs Newsgroups: net.singles Title: re: multiple relationships Article-I.D.: ihldt.1358 Posted: Mon Feb 28 10:29:13 1983 Received: Tue Mar 1 05:35:47 1983 Reply-To: luchs@ihldt.UUCP (S. Luchs) I wasn't talking about jealousy. What I meant was being involved with a man the way I like to get involved tends to take up a lot of my time...time that I could be using to meet other men. But since you brought up the subject of jealousy... Were these women who broke up with you seeing other men also? If they had been "involved" with someone else, they probably would have been able to handle your other relationships a lot better. Are you saying that you get jealous? What is jealousy, anyway? How closely connected is it to low self-esteem? Is it the fear that your MOTOS will find someone "better" than you (fear of loss)? -Sarah