From: utzoo!watmath!idallen
Newsgroups: net.singles
Title: Multiple Relationships
Article-I.D.: watmath.4645
Posted: Sat Feb 26 20:08:44 1983
Received: Sun Feb 27 00:14:52 1983

	At this point I would rather just be getting to know a lot of
	men as FRIENDS and take my time to pick and choose who I get
	INVOLVED with.  Once I start "going out" with someone, I feel
	that my freedom to meet other men becomes a bit more limited.
	Anyway, I'm getting off the subject here.  If I go any further
	this is going to become a discussion of multiple relationships.

Multiple relationships.  Two of my relationships ended because the
woman I was with was upset over my involvement (what a nice bland
word) with other females.  Most people avoid jealousy, instead of
learning how to cope with it -- just like many people avoid anger.

I recognize jealousy as the price I pay for keeping my freedom, and
giving my lover(s) theirs.  I think it's worth it; it makes us both
(all) more interesting people.

	-IAN!    U of Waterloo      decvax!watmath!idallen