From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!seismo!hao!woods Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: Re: Single Article-I.D.: hao.406 Posted: Fri Jan 21 15:08:51 1983 Received: Sun Jan 23 04:45:57 1983 I still claim that it must indeed be either loneliness or lack of COMPLETE control over your own life. Either you have to consider someone else's desires, needs and feelings or you don't. I find it hard to believe that there are any women out there (or men either, for that matter) that would be satisfied with a relationship where their needs are never considered by their partner, even in Columbus! :-) I think that you will ALWAYS have to sacrifice your own needs to those of your partner SOMEtime, or your partner is either masochistic or about as bright as a small appliance bulb. The issue is still love, warmth and sex vs. control. GREG ucbvax!hplabs!hao!woods menlo70!hao!woods harpo!seismo!hao!woods decvax!brl-bmd!hao!woods