From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!floyd!vax135!ariel!houti!hogpc!houxz!ihnp4!ihuxw!tommyo Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Hard Breakups Article-I.D.: ihuxw.294 Posted: Thu Mar 10 18:09:04 1983 Received: Fri Mar 11 08:56:07 1983 Reply-To: tommyo@ihuxw.UUCP (Tom O`Connor) Ah, be considerate of one another! That`s the key. If one person hasn`t taken advantage of the other, then the breakup might not be too hard. I think the 1st breakup you have is the hardest. You just don`t want to accept the fact that things didn`t or can`t work out - there`s GOT to be a way we can work it out. But how many people can say the first one was the only one. There are cases I know of where it was #1 for one party, even for both, but these are the exceptions. The easiest one for me was when I found out the girl I was seeing decided that she wanted something I wasn`t ready for, so went out and found a guy who didn`t give a darn. It didn`t phase her a bit, she had what she wanted. Too bad that was all she wanted. As far as the "nice guy" line goes, I`ve stopped counting the times I`ve heard it. One of these days I`ll be fortunate, I just hope it happens before I retire! Along these lines, I wonder if any females have ever gotten a "nice girl but" line, and how they handled it. I believe in myself, and have some very good friends who also believe in me and do remind me from time to time. That helps. I may be unattached, but I do know I have GOOD friends. And they ain`t so easy to find these days. Happy Day Good Day Today