From: utzoo!decvax!ucbvax!CAD:tektronix!tekid!barbaral Newsgroups: net.singles Title: telepathy Article-I.D.: tekid.828 Posted: Tue Feb 8 11:47:18 1983 Received: Fri Feb 11 20:23:57 1983 When I'm not sure about a person's thoughts or reactions, I ASK them. I can't, and don't like to read minds. I tried to read minds in the past and read them wrong, and gotten myself into some messes. I've had people try to read my mind and get the wrong idea. Thus, I prefer the direct approach. If I'm no sure...I ask. I do try to phrase the question carefully. When I first went out with one guy, I couldn't tell if he was 1)bored stiff with me 2)didn't like me 3)was just very shy and self- conscious. I thought it was #1, but thought I'd ask and make sure, and it turned out to be #3. I'm glad I asked because that relationship worked out very well. If I hadn't asked, I would've just assumed he didn't care for me, and wouldn't have seen him any more. I is It is kind of scarey to ask sometimes.